asking交易心得完整版

1. asking交易心得完整版

一：与人为善，知恩图报。
  
  
 
  
 人真的有命啊，不信都不行啊感谢上天。
  
 职业炒手：炒股求财，小富靠勤 ，中富靠运， 大富靠命。
  
 
  
 二：我只跟市场走，不预测，不操纵。
  
 
  
 1. 炒股一定要借力打力,四两拨千斤,硬干是不行的,顺势最关键
  
 
  
 2. 一定要做市场高度认同的票,要不独脚戏可不好唱哦。
  
 
  
 3. 这年头哪有主力,上涨靠的是市场合力,快换换脑筋吧
  
 
  
 4. 其实我是很少去预测大盘或个股的,一切以盘中走势为准.因为我们不是神仙,即使你有80%的准确率.那20%的失误都有可能把你的利润都磨平.
  
 
  
 5. 谁买谁卖不重要,关键是市场的认同度.当然,机构的号召力是很强的,需要加以重视
  
 
  
 三：十分里边，心态，控制力占7分，技术占3分。
  
 
  
 四：超短线,心态最关键,有了良好的心态才能成功。
  
 
  
 1. 索罗斯说过，晚上睡觉腰痛，第二天就砍仓。承受力就像每个人的性格一样，天生了。有赚就好啦，心态好，集少成多，时间能带来一切。
  
 
  
 2. .股票会长期赚钱的人，肯定是个淡定从容，温和处事之人。绝少极端冲动的人。
  
 行情好多做，一般都轻仓。这样子人轻松，不累。多赚少赚没事，身体要紧。买多只吧，热点为主，波段为辅。看上市公司公告或三大报公开信息，基本自己选。
  
 
  
 3.会发财的都是胆大心细的人，首先您要有想法，然后再慢慢推敲论证。炒股一样，首先您先要找强势股，再去想他为什么会涨起来。然后你择机进去分一杯羹，仅止而己
  
 
  
 4.发财心切，炒股之大忌。
  
 
  
 五：小钱要搏，大钱要稳。
  
 
  
 1. 小资金要想快速变大一定要超短线，只有超短线才能做到一年10多倍。才能最快速度挖到第一桶金。
  
 
  
 2. 99年到现在,专门做超短线.99年100%的收益,2000年获利12倍,2004年大概赚了300%,今年少点,有赚了将近190%.明年只要求翻一番就好了,因资金太大了,要想大幅获利不易。
  
 哪有办法每年翻番,除非他是精神病,这几年能稳定在50%,以后一年都能赚20-30%,我就心满意足了,现在要是只有几十万,一年随便赚他个2-3倍的,轻轻松松的
  
 
  
 3.(关于操作的随意性，)这是人性的弱点，我也经常犯。一般随意了一二把，第二天立马就纠错。不会跟他纠缠，然后把他忘记，重新谨慎再来。
  
 
  
 4. 我觉得超短一定要及时获利了解，在稳建的前提下尽量做大成交量，赚还佣。行情好时我都是满仓滚动操做，因为这时亏钱概率小。不好时应尽量轻仓小玩玩。
  
 盘不好就少做点.但是天天都要做,锻炼盘感,免得行情一来摸不找北.
  
 
  
 5. 任何时候，只有半仓操作的股票迅速赢利的情况下，才能动用另半仓资金。
  
 
  
 6. 追涨停这招只能在市场活跃疯狂时好用.一但市场陷入盘整或下跌.那是输多赢少.容易使人失去信心
  
 
  
 追涨停是一件很耗精力的事,手脚要快,反应还要更快.一般人没个一,二年的实战,很难胜任
  
 涨停那一定要行情活络才好搞，等股票行情来的时候那不是随便买随便赚，一点也不难。赚大钱的都是在行情好，要大干快上。其余的看看啦，有机会赚点生活费就OK啦。
  
 
  
 行情不好涨停要少做，多做多伤心。没有赚钱效应，可能今天这涨停行，明天又不行。做得好，赚点点。不好的话，吃锤。难啊当没有赚钱效应时，一定要控制好仓位。不要想着赚钱啦，拿少少钱练练敢觉啦！
  
 
  
 7. 炒股吧很简单，个股活跃你就追涨，追板块的龙头就行啦。反之你就看看好啦，有超跌，你抢一把就走。道理谁都懂，但没几个人能管得住自己的手脚。这就是悲剧。
  
 
  
 8. 当身家超越中产阶级之上时。资金管理就是一个很重要的问题，好重坏轻，分分仓，心态好。
  
 
  
 9. 年纪大了，精力有限了，超短这种青春饭不好吃得动了。更何况大资金作超短，会精尽人亡。
  
 
  
 10.谋事在人，成事在天。风险时刻慬记在心！
  
 
  
 六：只做超强势股的追涨和守株待兔(仓位管理必不可少，否则会做电梯 )
  
 
  
 1. 股票投机跟艺术创作一样,是有天赋的.它没有什么太多比较固定的规律,经常是飘忽不定的,买入卖出有时就是靠感觉或突然的灵感,当然这需要长期专注看盘积累的.没有天赋,有的一辈子的努力也悟不透其中的窍窍。
  
 
  
 2. 一个炒股者如果看书依样画葫芦，可能会死得很惨，就如论坛里一些技法：找一两个经典图形，介绍一些共性的东西，就算是一招了。其实，这些招式只是给大家提供了一些思路而已，大量的求证此招的市场含义工作及细化操作过程都需要大家实盘去体会，任何一招未经过其本人反反复复在一年当中多种周期情况下都实盘尝试过的，都不可能为其本人真正掌握。说白了，想要学好炒股本领，你就拿出钱来，对着人家介绍，你比较喜欢的那一招(不论中、短线)，一次次地实盘验证，并写下每一次实盘过程的想法，最少经过一年牛熊行情的更替，你就会初步掌握;再经过一年只此一招的训练，两年后在这招上你肯定也是好手，好了，前两年的亏损第三年可能轻松就赚回来了。可惜这句话多数人听起来以为只是垃圾,其实却是最最精华之处!!!
  
 
  
 3. 想当初刚入门时,也摸索出了多种方法,学会了18般武艺,兵来将档,水来土淹.随着时间的流逝,经验越来越丰富,各种技巧烂熟于心.渐渐的到现在基本上靠感觉炒股,虽然也经常出错,但都能下意识的第一时间认错.所以一波行情下来,胜利果实基本都在.运气好得话,在大盘调整时,资金还能不断创新高.说实话,我今天盘中创了新高.没想到今天尾盘杀跌.和预想的有点出入.导致仓位偏重,亏了点钱.明天可能会反弹吧.猜猜而已.其实我是很少去预测大盘或个股的,一切以盘中走势为准.因为我们不是神仙,即使你有80%的准确率.那20%的失误都有可能把你的利润都磨平.
  
 
  
 4. 对市场的理解力
  
 
  
 至少还应有与选股同等重要的另外两个重要因素：
  
 一是等待，需要绝对的耐心；二是发现，需要经验来确认；跟随则是最次要的买入动作了。交易是所有分析以后的结果，并不是盘口随意的追涨。做人气股、领涨股时资金最安全，效率最高。人气股不仅是热点，还是热点中的焦点。一般的资金只是发现和跟随，宁波解放南路是发掘和引导，技术含量要高得多。
  
 我的仓位是这样的，确认是追涨时，先进半仓，当天涨停，次日继续加仓到全仓，让其利润最大化。当天不能涨停，次日择高点先出等回调做守株待兔。做守株待兔时，也是先半仓，获利后出局不加仓。失利后止损不加仓。
  
 
  
 5.下决心付诸行动的决断力
  
 
  
 指数一直绵绵在一轮经典的下跌过后，市场面临转势，但我们不知道谁会先涨，资金量大的操作必然会提前布局，而我们需要的就是睁大眼睛，等待最强的那只股票出现，然后闭着眼睛进入就可以了。
  
 
  
 6. 选股很重要，是决定性的前提，但选股还不是全部。（重点）
  
 任何一种操作方法，哪怕是做下跌通道的一个小反抽，只要是不参与任何级别调整，买了就为了马上挣钱，这种方法都是短线，说白了，不参与任何性质整理!
  
 所以，就我的看法，荣展做的只是超强势股，并非真正的龙头，我和职业炒手兄所找的才是龙头。
  
 我们赚大钱,全是符合这样的条件,而亏钱基本都是不符合而去强做.
  
 我的追涨操作为什么都出现在大盘已大涨的情况下。原因很简单，我不能确认每一次大盘是否能继续向上，所以就挑最强的股票上。大盘如果还向好，最强的股票就会再次大幅向上;大盘如果不行，则最强的股票通常还能横几天，可以果断退出。
  
 任何时候，只有半仓操作的股票迅速赢利的情况下，才能动用另半仓资金。
  
 龙头需要技术吗，不需要，要的是临阵时的果敢和勇气。如果你操作的一直都是市场各阶段最强的股票，那你自然就能做到龙头。
  
 
  
 7. (技术指标主要看)成交量均线 K线(收盘后)不用(翻看大量个股)，主要看公告，再结合市场热点锁定相关个股。(至于做下跌股的反弹选择)前期热门强势股。
  
 
  
 8. 从来暴涨的股票天量见天价的居多
  
 
  
 9. 龙头战法之所以美妙，是因为在这个市场中，不同周期之龙头如长江大河连绵不绝，纵横交错，节奏连贯，中龙之套短龙，后龙超前龙，涨停踏浪龙头如履平地。
  
 
  
 10. 热点龙头股，涨先涨，跌后跌。
  
 大部份时候题材比形态重要。题材能否获得市场的高度认同是判定龙头最关键因素，再结合大盘当时的炒作氛围的好坏决定进出。
  
 
  
 11. 强势股超跌;
  
 开赌场的，不怕你赢钱，就怕你不来。对个股来说，只要有量，只要有人搞，就有机会。就像拿一粒球，狠狠的往地上仍，他一定会上上下下好几次。
  
 
  
 再低点买当然是最好，但会不会给您呢，要考虑一下概率问题
  
 
  
 理论上前期强势热门股超跌都可抢反弹，可越跌越买，不要怕
  
 超跌的厉害的，越跌越买，直至满仓。当然要基本面没问题的
  
 
  
 很多强势股都超跌了。但现在有期指，以前的经验也不好靠得住。
  
 
  
 12.(游资喜欢打板，那么是谁把股票拉到涨停板去的呢？)
  
 asking:市场的共性,我们只是推波助澜而已。也有的是中长线主力在推动,我们进去抢点食而已。
  
 （玩超短成功的，大部分获利是抢的跟风肥羊的钱，抢中长线操盘主力的钱，不是那么容易。）

2. 美国教父中的经典台词

3. asking的用法

asking 是一个现在分词,在这里作定语,相当于定语从句which asks.
  因为这句话已经有谓语is了,因此,asking 不能换成ask.

4. They are always asking.这个句子ask为什么要加ing？

从语法上看，前面有ARE 这个BE动词，所以ASK要变成现代分词形式加ING
整句意思看，asking表达了一种持续在做的状态，他们总是在提问。asking表示动作一直持续。


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5. 能帮忙翻译下面几句话吗?

1. 问:你能说说在你生活中,宽容的重要性吗? 
Can you tell me how important the tolerance is in your daily life?
答:宽容能使人变得谦虚,能和别人更好的相处,更能让自己的生活变得轻松快乐. 
Tolerance can make you more modest and can make you get on with others and then consequently your will have a happier and easier life.
2.问:能简单地谈谈你的性情和本性吗? 
Can you tell me briefly your temper and your personality?
答:我觉得我是一个脾气很温和的人,执着和坚持是我最大的两个性格. 
I think of I am a person of gentle nature and perseverance and persistence are my most prominent character,
3.问:能说一件你不得不做但又很讨厌做的事吗? 
Can you tell me one or two cases which you dislike but you have no other choice except doing it?
答:上思想政治课. 
Having ideologican and political class.
4.问:在你生命中对你影响最大的人是谁? 
Who is the person influencing most in your life
答:我的父亲对我的成长与教育影响最大. 
My father influences me a lot in my growing and education.
5.问:你决不会放弃的事情是什么? 
What is the thing that you will never give up?
答:对理想的追求,比如:成为一名科企家. 
Pursuit of my dream, such as becoming a scientific enterpriser.
6.问:你从不会忘记的人是谁? 
Who is the person that you will never forget?
答:我的母亲. 
My mother
7.问:你最想念的人或事有哪些? 
What are the person and things you yearn most
答:我最想念的人,是我的女朋友;最想念的事是和她在一起. 
The person I miss most is my girlfriend and the thing I yearn most is to be together with her.
8.问:什么样的人能成为与你性情相投的伴侣? 
What kind of helpmate will be the kindred spirit of you?
答:善良,温柔,开朗,兴趣相同的人会成为与我心心相印的伴侣.
The person who is kind, gentle, outgoing and have common interest with me will be my ideal helpmate.

6. i+will+asking+my哪错了？

will是将来时态，而asking则是现在进行时。不可以用在一起。
my是物主代词，后面应该有名词。如果是问自己的话，应该是使用反身代词myself。
那么原句就改正为：I will ask myself.

7. TED英语演讲 | 拒绝丧偶式育儿 让父亲参与抚养的美好和艰辛

 
                                                                                     
    The beautiful, hard work of co-parenting 
    演讲者： Joel Leon
    语言： 英语
    简介： 2019 |  讲故事的人和父亲乔尔·莱昂（Joel Leon）说，“共同育儿”不是流行语，它是一种公开，始终如一，充满爱心地向家人展示的方式。在这个动人的演讲中，他向所有父母挑战，要求他们在孩子的日常生活中扮演平等，积极的角色，即使在这个世界上，往往是母亲独自承担着牺牲的重担。莱昂鼓励有关养育子女的细微对话，并提醒我们，做父母不是责任，而是机会。
     
     
    💬   中英对照翻译 
   My name is Joel, and I'm a co-parent.
   我是乔尔，一名承担共同抚养子女义务的父亲。
     
   So, growing up, I never heard the term "co-parent." I heard a lot of other things, though, for starters, "absentee father," "sperm donor" -- that's a good one -- "deadbeat dad" and, my personal favorite, "baby daddy." "Baby daddy," for those not in the know, refers to an individual who helps to conceive a child but does little else.
   在我的成长过程中，我从未听说过“共同抚养”这个词，尽管对于新手而言，我听说过其他的词，“缺席父亲”，“精子捐献者”——听起来不错——“老赖爹（deadbeat dad）”，还有我自己最喜欢的——“宝爸（baby daddy）”。给不知道的人科普一下，“宝爸”是指一个帮助怀孕，而却不对此负责的父亲。
     
    Baby daddy is also someone who is not married by law to the mother of said child. Growing up, I thought "co-parent" was reserved primarily for white families that starred in Netflix prime-time dramas.
   “宝爸”也是在法律上没有与孩子的母亲结婚的人。成长过程中，我曾以为“共同抚养”一词是针对在Netflix黄金档电视剧中那些白人家庭而言的。
     
   It still kind of does. But it wasn't used to explain the role of a parent. Right? Either you had kids or you didn't, and no one in my social circles or a tour dinner table was having complex conversations about the role fathers played in that conversation, right? 
   这似乎也说得通，但“共同抚养”并不曾用来解释父母的角色，对吧？不管你是否有孩子，在我的社交圈里或在我们聚餐时，没有人会围绕父亲的角色进行复杂的讨论，不是吗？
     
   A more balanced, open, loving approach to parenting was not something we were discussing within our social circles. A majority of the time, the fathers I knew of growing up were barely present or just completely nonexistent. "Co-parent" wasn't a term I heard or saw where I grew up, where I came from.
   一种更公平、开放且充满关爱的抚养方法不是我们在自己的社交圈里涉猎的话题。大部分时间里，我所知道的父亲们在他们孩子成长过程中几乎不出现，或者根本不存在。在我出生和成长的地方，我不曾听说过或见过“共同抚养”。
     
   I come from the hood. That hood would be Creston Avenue, 188th in the Bronx. And for -- one person, that's what's up.
   我来自“那个”街区，布朗克斯（纽约以高犯罪率著称的贫民区）克雷斯顿大街188号。对，就是这么回事儿。
     
   Appreciate that.
   感谢。
     
   For a lot of us in that hood, there was only one person you could already turn to for food, shelter, warmth, love, discipline: our mothers.
   在那个街区里，对许多人来说，我们只能指望一个人，去寻求食物、住处、温暖、爱和训导：我们的母亲。
     
   My mother, who I playfully call "Linda T," was my first example of real love and what showing up as a healthy co-parent looked like. She was a strong, determined single mother, a woman who would have benefited greatly from having a secure and stable partner as a co-parent.
   我开玩笑地叫我母亲“琳达·T（LindaT）”，她为真正的爱做了表率，也有一个健康的共同抚养者该有的样子。她是一个强大、坚定的单亲母亲。作为共同扶养人，她本该拥有一个可靠稳重的伴侣，以减轻她的负担。
     
   So I vowed whenever I got married, my boo and I would be together forever. You know?  We'd share the same bed and home, we'd sleep under the same covers, we'd argue at IKEA -- normal stuff.
   所以我发誓过无论我何时结婚，我会和我的妻子永远在一起。很好理解吧？我们会分享同一张床，共享一个家。我们会睡在同一被窝里，会为了琐事在宜家里争吵。
     
   My partner would feel seen and loved, and our children would grow up in a two-parent household.
   我的伴侣会感到被在乎、被疼爱，我们的孩子会在有双亲的家庭里长大。
     
   However, things rarely ever end up how we plan them. Our daughter Lilah has never known a household with both of her parents living together under one roof. Her mother and I were never married. We dated on and off for several months before we found out she was pregnant. 
   然而，到头来，计划没有变化快。我们的女儿莱拉从来都不知道，和父母住在一起的家庭生活是什么样子。因为我和她的母亲从未结过婚。在发现她怀孕之前，我们断断续续约会了几个月。
     
   Up until then, my mother didn't even know she existed. I was ashamed, I was embarrassed, and, at times, I was suicidal. I was asking myself, what was I doing? Where was I going wrong? In ever wanted the stigma or label of what some identified as the stereotypical "black father." So: absentee, confrontational, combative, not present.
   在那之前，我母亲甚至不知道我女友的存在。我感到羞愧，很尴尬，有时，我还想自杀。我问我自己，我在干什么？我哪里做错了？我从不想被羞辱或被称为一些人刻板印象中的“黑人父亲”：缺席者、挑衅者、好斗的、“失踪”的家伙。
     
   It took a lot of work, time, energy and effort for us to finally realize that maybe co-parenting for us didn't need to mean a shared household and wedding bells, that maybe, just maybe, the way we showed up as co-parents lay not only in the layered nuances of our partnership but the capacity within our hearts to tend to a human that we helped create together.
   在花费大量的工作、时间、精力和努力后，我们终于意识到，也许共同抚养对我们来说并不意味着一定要共享一个家庭，或必须要谈婚论嫁。也许，仅仅是也许，我们以共同抚养者的身份出现的方式，不仅是存在于我们伴侣关系中有层次的细微差别，更在于我们在内心深处照顾一个人的能力，而这个人是我们共同的结晶。
     
   It would involve love in a nurturing and safe environment that would feed Lilah long after we both left this earth.
   一个安全的养育环境里若有了爱，莱拉在我们都离开世界很久以后也会感到满足。
     
   Fast-forward four years, and Lilah is now in pre-K. She loves gummies, and she says things like, "My heart is filled with love." She's the most loving, compassionate, empathetic human being I know, and the reason I get to tell you all of this is because she's back in the Bronx with her mother. 
   快进四年，莱拉现在在学前班，她非常喜欢软糖，而且她会说类似“我内心充满了爱”这样的话。她是我知道的最可爱、最有同情心、最有同理心的人，而我之所以能把这一切告诉你们，是因为她和她的母亲回到了布朗克斯。
     
   You see, this is co-parenting, and in an ideal world, my mother would have had a co-parent, too. She would have had support, someone to show up and give her a break, a time off. 
   这就是共同抚养。在一个理想的世界里，我的母亲本可以也有一个共同抚养的伙伴，她本可以得到支持，也有人本可以出现，让她有休息的时间。在一个理想的世界里，任何一个父亲或母亲都是共同抚养者。
     
   In an ideal world, every parent is a co-parent. In an ideal world, both parents share the weight of the work appropriately. Lilah's mother and I have a schedule. Some days, I leave work and pick Lilah up from school, some days I don't. Lilah's mother gets to go rock climbing or study for the LSAT, and I get to stand in a room full of bold, dynamic and powerful women and talk about dad stuff.
   在一个理想的世界里，父母双方都能适当地分担抚养的重担。我和莱拉的母亲有一个日程计划，有时我会下班去接莱拉放学，有时我不会。这样莱拉的母亲可以去攀岩，或者准备法学院入学考试，而我也能在一个充满了勇气、活力和强大的女性的房子里，讨论父亲那些事。
     
   It is work, it is beautifully hard work dismantling the systems that would have us believe a woman's primary role is in the kitchen, tending to all things domestic, while the hapless dad fumbles all over himself whenever he has to spend a weekend alone with the kids. It is work that needs to happen right now.
   共同抚养是一种工作，是艰辛而美好的工作。它逐渐废除了一种家庭系统，这种系统让我们认为女人的主要角色就是呆在厨房里负担所有家务，而可怜的父亲每当不得不单独和孩子们共度周末时，只会手忙脚乱。共同抚养是需要立刻执行的工作。
     
   You see, far too often, what it seems like is when both parents are working, one parent is typically tasked with organizing the household and keeping the home running. That person is typically a woman or someone who identifies as such. Far too often, those who identify as mothers and as women have to sacrifice their dreams in order to appease the standard. 
   这种情况太普遍了，当双方都在工作时，一方通常要安排好家庭事务，让这个家正常运转。而这个人通常是女人或者扮演此角色的人。那些作为母亲或女人的一方往往不得不牺牲她们的梦想以达到这种标准。
     
   They have to sacrifice their dreams in order to ensure that motherhood takes precedence over all else. And I'm not here to say that it doesn't, but what I am here to say is, as equal partners and co-parents, it is our duty to ensure that our co-parenting partners don't have to put their passions, their pursuits and their dreams to the back burner just because we're too self-absorbed to show up as allies.
   她们不得不牺牲自己的梦想，以保证母亲的身份优于其他所有事请。我并不否认这点，但我想说的是作为平等的搭档和共同抚养者，我们的责任是保证我们的共同抚养搭档不必把他们热衷的爱好、追求和理想放在次要地位，就因为我们自私地不愿共同承担。
     
   Co-parenting makes the space possible for everybody. As a co-parent, the time I've gotten to share and spend with Lilah is time I appreciate, the time that has allowed me to be fully present for my child, removing the notion that the emotional labor required to raise a child is a woman's work. As a co-parent, Lilah and I have built snowmen, we've played with acorns, we've rapped to the soundtrack of "Moana," I know you have, too.
   共同抚养让每个人有自己的空间变成了可能。作为承担共同抚养义务的人，我很感激能拥有与莱拉共同度过的时光，拥有能让我充分陪伴孩子的时光，它淘汰了养育孩子所需要的情绪劳动是女人的工作这一观念。作为共同抚养孩子的人，我和莱拉一起堆了雪人，一起玩了橡果，还跟着《海洋奇缘》的原声练说唱，我知道你们也干过这事。
     
   She's sat with me while I've led workshops at Columbia University, when I talk about the intersections of poetry, hip-hop and theater. We get to talk about her emotions and her feelings because we have exclusive time together, and that time is planned time, it's organized around not just my schedule but her mother's. Both of us, as co-parents, have unique parenting styles. And we may argue at times, but what we can always agree on is how to raise a human --our human.
   当我在哥伦比亚大学主持讨论会，谈论诗歌、说唱和戏剧的交集时，她就坐在我身旁。我们会讨论她的情绪与情感，因为我们有单独在一起的专属时光，这些时间都是计划好的。不仅是根据我的行程，还是根据他母亲的行程安排的。作为共同抚养者，我们两人都有独特的养育方式。有时我们会发生争执，但我们总能在一件事上意见一致：如何养育一个人——我们的孩子。
     
   I will never fully understand or comprehend what it means to hold a child in my body for 10 months. I will never be able to understand the trials and tribulations of breastfeeding, the work that it takes, the emotional, physical, psychological and emotional toll that carrying a human can have on the female body. 
   我永远不会完全理解或明白，在身体里连续十个月怀着一个孩子意味着什么。我永远不能理解母乳喂养的艰辛和困难，背后的付出，我也永远不能理解怀孕在情绪、身体和心理上对女性身体的影响。
     
   What co-parenting does is say, we can create balance, a more balanced home and work life for everyone involved. Co-parenting says that while parenting may involve sacrifices, yes, the weight of that sacrifice is not solely resting on one parent alone. No matter your relational dynamic, no matter how you identify as a human being -- he, she, they, ze -- co-parenting says we can create space and equity, better communication, empathy, I hear you, I see you, how can I show up for you in ways that benefits our family?
   共同抚养的目的是让我们能创造平衡，让家庭中每个成员的工作生活保持平衡。共同抚养中，虽然可能会有牺牲，这是事实，但牺牲的重担并不只会由一方单独承担。不论你的人际关系如何变化，不论你怎么定义人——他，她，他们——共同抚养让我们能创造空间和平等，更好的沟通、共鸣，我能听到你、理解你，我知道怎样以利于家庭的方式出现。
     
   My goal: I want more fathers to embrace co-parenting as a model for a better tomorrow, a better today for ourselves, for our co-parenting partners, for our families, for our community. I want more fathers talking about fatherhood openly, candidly, honestly, lovingly. Right? I want more people to recognize that black fathers in particular are more than the court system, more than child support and more than what the media might portray us to be.
   这是我的目标：我想让更多的父亲接受共同抚养的模式，为了更好的明天，为了我们自己更好的今天，为了我们共同抚养的搭档，为了我们的家庭、社会。我想要更多的父亲开放地、坦白地、真诚地、亲切地讨论父性，好吗?我想让更多人认识到，黑人父亲，他们不仅只与法院和子女抚养费有关，不仅只是媒体口中的我们。
     
   Our role as fathers, our role as parents, our value as parents is not dependent on the zeroes at the ends of our checks but the capacity within our hearts to show up for our families, for the people we love, for our little ones.
   我们扮演的父亲角色，父母角色，我们作为父母的价值，并不取决于我们支票上的数字后有几个零，而是取决于我们内心中为我们的家庭，为我们爱的人和我们的孩子们站出来的能力。
     
   Being a father is not only a responsibility, it's an opportunity. This is for Dwain, this is for Kareem "Buc" Drayton, this is for Biggs, this is for Boola, this is for Tyron, this is for all the black fathers who are showing up on a day-to-day basis. This is for Charles Lorenzo Daniels, my father,who didn't have the language or the tools to show up in the ways that he wanted to.
   成为父亲不只是一种责任，还是一次机会，这段演讲要献给达文（Dawin），卡里姆·德雷顿（Kareem“Buc”Drayton）比格斯（Biggs），布拉（Boola)，塔伦（Tyron）。献给所有每天都在承担起责任的黑人父亲。同样也要献给查尔斯·勒伦佐·丹尼尔斯（CharlesLerenzoDaniels），我的父亲，他没有语言和工具来按照他想要的方式出现。
     
   Thank you.
   谢谢。
     
   My name is Joel.
   我是乔尔。
     
   Hi Bria, hi West.
   嗨，布里亚，嗨，韦斯特。
     
   (In Yoruba) Amen.
   （约鲁巴语）阿门。
     
   (Applause)
   （掌声）

8. 英语开场白

　　公司聚会，大型派对找不到小伙伴?觉得社交场合打开话匣子困难无比，只好躲在角落发呆?40句英语开场白，让你轻轻松松交到朋友!更多消息请关注应届毕业生网。
     
    　　It's sometimes hard to break the ice with people you've never met before. Whether at a corporate event or big party, there's no reason to hide in a corner. Instigating conversation can lead to amazing connections that help you obtain your dream job or lead you to a new best friend — or great date! Not sure where to start? We have 40 conversation starters to make mingling fun.
   
    　　有时候和陌生人打开话匣子比较困难。无论是公司活动还是派对上，都不该只缩在角落里。和周围人互相交流能够建立意想不到的人际关系，甚至可以获得你想要的工作或是找到一位挚友——找到真爱也说不定哦!可是从哪儿说起呢?下面40句开场白让交际变得简单有趣起来。
   
    　　1.Where did you grow up? This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past, which often puts others at ease.
   
    　　1.你是在哪长大的?这是非常好的一句开场白，可以让对方谈论起过去，这样对话双方会比较轻松。
   
    　　2. Do you have any pets? People love their pets, and inquiring about them encourages further conversation. And, even if the person you're chatting with doesn't have any, it's still a good start.
   
    　　2.你养宠物吗?人们都喜欢宠物，问起他们的宠物能让对话进行下去。即使对方没有宠物，这也不失为一个好的开场白。
   
    　　3. What's your favorite book? Instead of asking what people are reading right now, which can be a bit too intimate, asking about a book they love can create a mutual connection.
   
    　　3. 你最喜欢的书是哪一本? 如果直接询问对方正在阅读的书，显得太过亲密。而问他们喜欢的书利于在彼此之间建立联系。
   
    　　4. What's the first thing you do after work? Do you kick off your shoes? Hit the gym? Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed.
   
    　　4. 下班后做的第一件事是什么?是踢掉鞋子?去健身?问人们如何放松能让他们感到愉快。
   
    　　5. What's your dream job? Even at a corporate gathering, inquiring about someone's dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started.
   
    　　5. 你理想的职业是什么?即使是在公司聚会上，问理想职业也是开始对话的一种有效方式。
   
    　　6. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? Not everyone gets to travel tons, making this a fun question for anyone.
   
    　　6. 如果你可以住在世界上任何一个地方，你会住在哪?不是每个人都有机会到处旅行，这个问题能让大家都开心起来。
   
    　　7. What countries have you traveled to? Even if you haven't traveled the world, asking if others have encourages someone to share memories.
   
    　　7. 你去过哪些国家?即使你没有出去旅游过，问问别人可以让他们分享回忆。
   
    　　8. Do you like to cook? Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing.
   
    　　8. 你喜欢烹饪吗?问问对方最喜欢的菜肴，烹饪方面的经历总能引起有趣的话题。
   
    　　9. What's your favorite food? Everyone eats, making this an icebreaker that works anywhere, anytime.
   
    　　9. 你最喜欢的食物是什么?民以食为天，这个问题百试不灵。
   
    　　10. What's your favorite drink? A wonderfully basic question, asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering.
   
    　　10. 你最喜欢的饮料是什么? 绝妙的常规问题。任何聚会上问这个问题总不会错。
   
    　　11. Do you have a favorite local restaurant? This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts, which puts everyone at ease.
   
    　　11. 你有最喜欢的餐厅吗?这个问题能让人们谈论起日常休闲的地方，使大家放松。
   
    　　12. What's your favorite movie? You can find out a lot about a person when you chat about a favorite movie. Follow it up with specific questions, such as scene stealers and actors in the flick.
   
    　　12. 你最喜欢哪部电影?人们对电影的喜好能反映个人特点。接着问些具体的问题，比如谁最抢戏，片中的演员等等。
   
    　　13. What movie are you dying to see? Jump in with a question that involves everyone and will get a group chatting over new releases.
   
    　　13. 哪一部电影你非看不可?这个问题可以让所有人都加入到对新影片的讨论中。
   
    　　14. What are you watching on TV? This is another question that won't offend and is open-ended, encouraging even the supershy to start chatting.
   
    　　14. 你都看些什么电视节目?这又是一个比较中性的问题，答案很开放，让那些性格内向的人也能加入讨论。
   
    　　15. What's the last concert you went to? Another easygoing question for one-on-one conversation or for jumping into a group conversation. And it's a fun way to find out what kinds of music your new friends listen to.
   
    　　15. 你最近去的音乐会是那一场?这个话题不仅适合两个人谈论，作为小组讨论的话题也完全没问题，还能让你知道新朋友的音乐偏好。
   
    　　16. What's the craziest thing you've ever done? For those who are ready to make a bold first impression, this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation.
   
    　　16. 你做过的最疯狂的事是什么?如果你想让人印象深刻的话，这是一个能够吸引注意而且制造乐趣的话题。
   
    　　17. If you were stranded on a deserted island and you could have only one item, what would it be? Yes, a classic one-liner, but this convo starter always gets a good answer.
   
    　　17. 如果你被困在沙漠中但只能带一样东西，你会带什么?没错，就是这个经典的问题，但通常你会得到一个好回答。
   
    　　18. What's your favorite season? Here's a question that works well with the "it's always easy to talk about the weather" concept. Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions, and you have a conversation.
   
    　　18. 你最喜欢的季节是哪一个? 这个问题验证了那句“如果不知道说什么，问天气总是没错的。”这之后再问现在的天气状况，对话就开始啦。
   
    　　19. Do you speak any other languages? Asking a semipersonal question encourages others to share information about themselves without feeling guarded.
   
    　　19. 你会说其他语言吗?问一些比较私人的话题，可以让对方分享一些信息但又不会过度防备。
   
    　　20. Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend? Make chatting easy by asking about future plans — without setting off a stalker vibe. Keep it light and share your plans too.
   
    　　20. 这个周末有什么计划?关于未来打算的问题让对话变得轻松，但不要刨根问底，给人居心叵测的感觉。尽量保证话题轻松，同时也分享你的计划。
   
    　　21. Where's your favorite place to hang out in town? Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening. And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants, bars, and shops.
   
    　　21. 镇上最喜欢的去处?这又是一个有趣而不私人的开场问题。接着就可以讨论最喜欢的`餐厅，酒吧和商店。
   
    　　22. I like your shirt! Where did you get it? A genuine compliment makes anyone smile.
   
    　　22. 我很喜欢你的衬衫，在哪买的?真诚的称赞能换来对方的笑脸。
   
    　　23. I can't place this song — do you know it? Hey, even if you know the tune, asking someone else about the music playing is a simple start.
   
    　　23. 我想不起来这首歌叫什么了——你知道吗? 哪怕你知道答案，问对方这个问题能轻松的让你们开始攀谈。
   
    　　24. How long have you been at your job? Even at a corporate event, asking others about their job titles, roles, and how long they have been at the company breaks the ice.
   
    　　24. 你在现在的工作岗位上做了几年?即使在公司活动上，询问关于职位和工作时间也是很好的开场白。
   
    　　25. Tell me about something that made you laugh this week. Everyone loves a good laugh! Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile.
   
    　　25. 告诉我这星期让你开心的事情吧。人人都爱笑!讨论点有趣的事能让人开怀一笑。
   
    　　26. If you had a million dollars, what would you do with it? A bit more direct, but asking a specific question that requires thought can really make an impression.
   
    　　26. 如果你有一百万美元，你会做什么?这问题有点直接，不过这种需要思考的问题通常能给人留下印象。
   
    　　27. How are you today? Sure, this is a no-brainer question, but it gets people talking.
   
    　　27. 今天怎么样?好吧，这问题有点没水准，但总能让人说点什么。
   
    　　28. Where is the best place you have ever visited? Taking a vacation is always wonderful. Asking someone new about a favorite destination is always an easy way to start talking.
   
    　　28. 你去过最赞的地方是哪?假期绝对是个好话题，而问人们最喜欢的地方让谈话很容易就开始。